I am thinking about investing in a boob enlargement operation..well actually I am being pressurised into it from my boyf. He says that our sex life has turned a little “stale” and that to stop him “cumming in boredom” I should spice my body up a little by upgrading my “best assets”. I have no problem with this…
…However, I have recently, for just over a year, being secretly dating another guy. I love both of these men the same and neither are inferior to the other. When my 1st boyf disputed the idea, I talked to my other boyf about me getting a boob job; but he strongly disagreed with it, stating that “he loves my body and would find it unattractive for me to go larger”.
Therefore I am now stuck in the middle; do I have the operation and upset one boyf, or leave them the same and “bore to death” the other one. Neither of these boyf’s know about the other.
Please help
Your opinions…
My opinion….what the hell is wrong with you?!
first of all…one BF…second of all if someone says they are not happy with you because of the way you look than they are not worth it
NEVER HAVE SURGERY FOR ANYONE BUT YOURSELF. DITCH THE GUY WHO IS TELLING YOU TO CHANGE YOUR BODY.
why are you cheating?!
Id never get a boob job, but then im not flat chested thankfully.
Breast cancer has hit nearly every woman in my family after the age of about 35, i dont want to increase my chance or anything when im older.
mmmm. don’t do something because of peer pressure. you should probably stop being a sl*t though.
if you want a boob job, do it for yourself and please stop letting men decide for you what you should do for your body. personally, i’d take the BF that told you to stay the way you are. has anyone noticed that these days some women are always trying to change to please a man? I have yet to see a man change something major for a woman.
jus dont get a boob job.
Dont EVER change for no man! (in this case 4 a little boy)…tell him that u are bored 2 and its better 4 u all 2 move on…or tell him 2 get a penis enlargement and u will do the boob job…you must not love yourself…if you are happy with yourself y change u..especially if you are with another awesome guy who loves u 4 u….
Is this a trick question?
dump the one who is “bored to death” with you. If you permanently alter your body for him (& not for yourself) then what is he going to ask you to alter next when he’s bored with that?
If you “bore to death” the other one, then you need to take a time out and seriously rethink what it is you’re doing to attract azzhats instead up stand up men.
Number one, you have a ridiculous boyfriend. If that’s the only reason he ‘loves’ you, then he really doesn’t. Number two, I hate to tell you but you don’t love either of these guys. Love is about trust and respect, of which you apparently have neither. Get honest with both of these guys, ASAP.
Um, you need to quit cheating on these two men is what you need to do. Tell them the truth about whats going on. You probably wont have any boyfriend after what you have done, so who cares what their opinions are.. go get your fake breasts if that give you self worth.
Grow up…..you shouldn’t get a boob job for anyone other than YOURSELF!
1. Pick a man and stick with it. Stop playing them because they will find out eventually and then you will lose them both.
2. Don’t change your body for any man. If you want to change it then do it for yourself.
3. What the hell is wrong with you?!?!?!?!
Here’s a suggestion to your dilemma – get the two boyfriends together and let them duke it out. Then do whatever the loser wants you to do.
OOPS – seriously why would you want to do that to your body at the request of another? If you want to proceed do it for yourself.
My opnion, do it for yourself, because the BF that wants you to do it will again be bored and want you to change something about yourself again to keep from getting bored, my vote is drop BF #1 and go with BF #2
ok this is retarded…….. FIRST figure out which one you wanna be with, two if a guy LOVES you then they won’t criticize how you look…. and he wouldn’t pressure you into something like that
Number 1 you shouldn’t cheat. Number 2 you shouldn’t change for your boyfriend just because he wants something more. Only get that if you really want it, not because your boyfriend does. If he can’t accept you for who you are then he isn’t right for you.